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In the eyes of allah am i still married.
« on: May 17, 2012, 01:59:23 PM »
as-salamu alakum,
I have been married now for 11 yrs to an Indonesian girl, I'm British and a Muslim. My wife has been unfaithful twice and became Hamil by an other man then had an abortion, I forgave her because I love her but she has again run away and don't know where she is, so I would like to know if we are still married under Islamic law?
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Re: In the eyes of allah am i still married.
« Reply #1 on: May 17, 2012, 03:57:17 PM »
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Welcome to the forum.


Sorry  to know  about  ur problem  bro.


To my  best  of knowledge , yes , you  2  are still married.  Zina is haram  and  one of the most  major sins.  Still  committing this  sin  does  not  automatically break  the marriage  relationship.


And  Allah Knows Best.




Did  u ask  ur wife  why  she  does not want to live  with u ?  Why  she is not divorcing  u  or  why  u  want to  keep the relationship ?  It  is clear that  she is not happy with u .  So , let  her marry  another  man  in a legal way .      And  u may  try  to find a pious  partner .    May  Allah  bless  u  and  compensate  u with   good.


keep praying to Allah  and  have patience .  Also talk  to a  Mufti  .  Does  her parents know  about     her activities ?   

May  Allah  guide  ur wife  , Ameen.
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Re: In the eyes of allah am i still married.
« Reply #2 on: May 17, 2012, 06:46:37 PM »
May ALLAH  reward u with a better wife !!!

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